How to find more local sex buddies
If you’re like the typical guy you are thinking that the more, the merrier. I really can’t blame you for thinking this way. After all, we live in a society where we think that bigger is better. Well, you only need to travel to Asia or some other more traditional parts of the world to know that this is not necessarily true. Sure, there are certain fruits and food that maybe smaller, but the taste is much better. Sure, there may be areas in the world that are much poorer, but people there live life with such a strong sense of emotional urgency that they have a tremendous amount of joy regardless of the amount of natural and man-made disaster that they face on a year to year basis. Do you see my point here?
Unfortunately, the whole idea of volume as necessarily being a good thing is so pervasive that it can undermine all areas of your life. This is especially true when it comes finding some local fuck buddys. If you think that finding these types of friend is a volume game I’m not going to talk you out of it. However, I am going to tell you that there are certain risks that you run. So if you are looking to develop more of these types of buddies, make sure that you play close attention to these risks. I don’t want you to set up a situation where you’re just looking at it as a volume game. In other words, you’re just trying to rack up points.
The problem here is it only takes one slighted or abused buddy to make your whole house of emotional cards come crashing down. The worst thing that can happen is that you might treat somebody in such a way that they feel slighted now that they can make your life a living hell long into the future.
Don’t take my word for it. There are many cases of famous men who basically have to deal with sexual skeletons in their closet because they were not more discreet when they were younger. If you want to avoid all that unnecessary bullshit and drama, do yourself a big favor and be very careful as to your selection of local fuck buddies. At the very least, demand the most stringent discretion. If the person knows how to keep her mouth shut then consider that person. If this person likes to talk up a big game or likes to drop names, avoid that person like a plague. It really is that simple.