Someone has to take up for it. I am writing in support of the hand job (Hj). I am a lover of the hj. I do not like to masturbate but a good hj drives me wild. I just like them performed by someone other than myself (Female). Now, I'm not saying that I don't whup my mule ever so often because I do. If for no other reason , so I can sleep. But it is a rare ocassion. Being an exhibitionist, I do enjoy spanking it with a female watching but that is, some how, different. The hj is thought of, by many, as just a prelude to real sex. And just like a bj, It usually is. But why does it have to be? There is nothing better to me than a good slow, erotic hj. That is probably the reason, in the past, that I enjoyed the Nashville massage parlor so much. Don't get me wrong. I love most all forms of sex that doesn't involve pain or result in jail time. And I like nothing better than going down on a woman. I love the feeling of shooting in a woman, where ever she wants it and the feeling and sound of a womans orgasm cant be beat. But I believe that I could actually live on hj's alone. Not that I'd want to but I do love them so. Now, I know that there are some women out there who will take issue with me. But think about it. There are many times when, for one reason or the other, you just don't feel like going through the whole sexual thing at that particular time. Why not give your man a treat? Let him just lay back and enjoy. No pressure to perform. No trying to hold back. No worries about pleasing you at the time. Just a slow, sensual playing with his toy soldier. Just the way he may like it. Be gentile unless he likes other wise. Don't forget the testicles and the prostate, if he likes that, also. I know two women who love to give them and nothing else. One is a friend that I've already written about and another is someone I met a few years ago. The friend gave them to me because she knew that I like them and, more so, needed them. The other lady liked to tease and see the effect on a man and gave hj's as a relief. Usually in front of her husband. Now, as unlikely as it will be, I'd like to see someone else's thoughts about this.

Every sexual act needs some love. During foreplay, I love feeling the guy's cock in my hand. I'm not sure I'd ever let that be the only thing we'd do, though. But honestly, there's some things that only a hand can do. Just like with every other sexual act. Each one is unique.